[回复本文] 发信人: moondancer(起舞弄清影，何似在人间), 信区: PureEnglish
标  题: A story of my neighbour
发信站: 饮水思源 (2007年08月14日01:27:21 星期二)

          I have a very strange neighbour at Garching, Munich. What I say "str
ange" is, the first time he met me, he was pouring out and I seldom had chance
 to speak. I was quite surprised for a man behaves like a woman. (I think a re
al man should not talk that much)
          Later on I understood the reason: he was married but lived alone for
 years. His beloved wife hided somewhere with two children of him. It was the 
first time for him to met his son when the Child is 17! He can divorce only af
ter the two Children reach 18.
          So a poor, lonely man, full of desire to share feelings with people,
 be desperate for love but lives a very energetic life.  he owes 16 BMW cars, 
keeps on running every morning. He was a world Champion for a strange ball spo
rt, a professional photographer, a safe guard, a tennis coach......
I thought the only thing he lacks is love (but later on I found I was wrong).

          He told me: "Lindy, everyday is the same for me. I am like the man h
olding a box and sitting aside the road. People passing by ask him: what is in
side? -----I don't know.  Where are you going? -----I don't know. I am just li
ke the man." Then I persuaded him to marry someone else, or to bring some Chil
dren back to raise, until he was very sleepy. Then he lent me the art assembly
 NORMAN ROCKWELL. "Read it then you can understand me".
           I read this book for 3 months. In this three months I also experien
ced love affairs. I felt the hurt for a long time but suddenly, I do not know 
why, I understood the two of "freedom of want" and "freedom of fear". Suddenly
 I felt that my spirit was rescued and I believe he must have the feeling tens
 of years ago. Life is not only for love , or work, or any single thing. He lo
st love, but he got himself.
           He was lying for "I don't know", and I was a fool to persuade him, 
even to make life plans for him. Everyone has his own world, every spirit is i
ndependent and worths respect. Every life style is reasonable if it lasts long
. And everyone, you will find a way to understand.
--

为快乐也舞，可以很活泼；为异性而舞，可以很性感；
但是我为自己而舞，为赞美而舞，我想寻求舞蹈中永恒的东西。